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Non-binary, but he/him is fine
I spent 30 years looking in the mirror trying to find myself, trying to make sense of myself. Or rather, trying to make sense of how I fit in—perhaps the most terribly cliché of human pursuits—and largely finding that I don’t. (I’m a medievalist for a reason.) Along the way, I played some good roles,…
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This Is My Voice
I spent the final four months of undergrad at York St. John’s University, where I took a creative writing module. I honestly don’t remember any of it very well, apart from two gems from the instructor: First, that I had been using “per se” incorrectly my whole life. (Thanks.) And second, in response to a…
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Quiet Revelations: a journey toward self-acceptance
The body and subconscious mind possess a wisdom that will help guide you, if you’re willing to listen. Accepting myself as non-binary was revelatory; a discovery of something that had been hiding in plain sight for an entire lifetime.